The Gift of Time
One of our engagement guidelines is the Gift of Time. It’s a guideline I use in all of my synchronous (same time) gatherings, and it basically means that all of us are gifting the rest of us our time and attention for the duration of this workshop, and that we should respect that.
Respecting the Gift of Time entails many things: listening and respecting other people’s contributions, not monologuing, and so forth. From the facilitators perpsective, it means starting and ending on time.
Applying the Gift of Time is much harder when the interaction is asynchronous (different time). While each of us may be committing the same amount of time overall to the process, the rhythm of that contribution affects the overall process.
How do we design for this? Chunking the process with regular, often synchronous interaction is one way. We’ve done this by having weekly calls, and you can see how this has affected our process. But you don’t have to feel limited to the telephone. On many of my projects, we schedule Wiki sprints as a way to create a safe learning environment for participants as well as to increase the collaborative energy. These are periods of time (anywhere from 3-5 hours) where people are encouraged to “be on the Wiki.”
Another design guideline is to schedule realistically for the time you have. I was once asked to help design a three-hour, face-to-face session for a group of upset community members that would “get them on the same page and get them inspired” and that would result in a comprehensive action plan. Not going to happen. You have to make a choice.
I’m faced with this all the time when scheduling breaks for face-to-face events. I understand the importance and value of scheduling enough time for breaks, and yet, I’m often fighting my instinct to cut out the breaks in order to leave more time for “work.”
Similarly, with phone gatherings, I often have to fight the instinct to schedule sessions longer than one hour. There is a lot of good research that says that people’s productivity on teleconferences drop dramatically after one hour, regardless of how well the call is being facilitated. This is why our calls are only one hour, even though I wish I had three!


